Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.
Simple and direct. Stop making excuses. If you want something in your life to change, make it happen.
If you want to be a better father, husband, employee, whatever it is, make the decision to be. Reflect upon how you haven’t been, what improvements you yourself can make in your life, and pivot to be the best you can be.
Stop saying you ‘want’ to be something.
Go and be it.